How to be fearless, fierce and fabulous


When my friend first said to me that she was going to be ‘fierce and outrageous and not hold back’, my first thought was that she was going to start living on the edge and shocking people. But when we got chatting more about it, what she meant was:

  • not holding back
  • stepping out of her comfort zone
  • showing up how she wants to show up
  • not editing who she is
  • not pretending to be someone she’s not
  • being authentic

So thinking more about it, for me being fierce and outrageous is also being fabulous and not letting anything stand in the way from living the life I want to live or being the person I want to be.

The benefits …

Being fearless, fierce and fabulous are the perfect ingredients for living life to the fullest and experiencing new things. They help you to overcome fears and limiting beliefs so you can create more happiness and success in all areas of life. And it simply feels good to let loose, not hold back and be free to be who you want to be – the fabulous person you truly are!

If you’re looking to add a little more excitement and fabulousness into your life, here are 20 tips to help you do exactly that:

1. Stop worrying about what other people think – this is your life, not theirs! Do what makes you happy and don’t worry about what others think or say. If they aren’t on board, I would say that’s more about them than it is about you.

2. Be confident – confidence is the key to being fabulous. If you don’t believe in yourself, no one else will. Stand tall, walk with your head held high, and own it!

3. Take risks – in order to experience something new, sometimes you have to take a leap of faith. And even if it doesn’t work out exactly as planned, that’s a lesson for you to do it differently next time.

4. Be spontaneous – instead of overthinking everything, sometimes it’s best just to go with the flow. Let your impulsive side take over and see where the wind takes you!

5. Live in the moment – life is too short to dwell on the past or worry about the future. So embrace each and every moment and make the most of it!

6. Speak your truth – don’t be afraid to stand up for what you believe in. The world needs more people who are comfortable and confident to truthfully express themselves!

7. Be yourself – at the end of the day, the most important thing is that you’re happy with who you are. Forget about being the ‘people pleaser’, keeping everyone else happy. Be authentic and true to yourself.

8. Follow your dreams – no matter how big or small, chase after your dreams and never give up on them. After all, they’re yours for a reason!

9. Get out of your comfort zone – if you always do what you’ve always done, you’ll always get what you’ve always got!  Take a step or a great big leap outside of your comfort zone and see what happens!

10. Laugh – laughter is the best medicine, so don’t take life too seriously. Find the humour in everything and just let go!

11. Be positive – having a positive outlook on life is contagious. Spread some good vibes and watch as they come back to you tenfold!

12. Be OK with making mistakes – it’s okay to make mistakes, everyone does! Learn from them and don’t beat yourself up over it.

13. Take chances – in order to achieve great things, sometimes you have to take risks. But don’t forget that even if they don’t work out as planned, you gave it a go and know how not to do it next time.

14. Be fearless – instead of living in fear, face your fears.  Feel the fear and do it anyway!

15. Be different – don’t be afraid to stand out from the rest. The world needs more people who are comfortable in their own skin and aren’t afraid to show it!

16. Don’t take yourself too seriously – life is too short to stress over the little things. So relax, have fun, and just enjoy it!

17. Let loose – sometimes you just need to let your hair down and have some fun! Forget about your troubles and enjoy the moment.

18. Be adventurous – try new things and step out of your comfort zone. The more adventurous you are, the more exciting your life will be!

19. Live for today – don’t worry about tomorrow, it will take care of itself. Focus on living in the present and making the most of each day!

20. Be yourself – at the end of the day, the most important thing is that you’re happy with who you are. So forget about trying to please everyone else and just be true to yourself.

These are just a few tips for living your best and most beautiful life. Remember, there’s no right or wrong way to do it – just be yourself and have fun! Life is too short to hold back, so go out there and live it to the fullest and be the FABULOUS YOU!

Until next time, hugs and fabulous happiness!

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